Category: Dating and Relationships
how did you know, you were ment for that person your with or want to be with? is it the feelings when your together? or the closeness that you have? or just doing things at the same time? like reading minds, finishing ech others sentence, calling at the same time, feeling the sme.
I didn't know at 1st because the feeling has come so many often before...however I will say that the closer Ardeth and I became,and the more we grew to trust each other,the assurance of this is meant to be developed and when I wasn't with her I felt lost bereft and so out of sorts that it was unbearable....
i think its a combination of both, but i know that if i dont get to talk to my lover, i feel lost, and like a part of me is missing. theres no other way to describe it, other than you just know.
Again plagarisim someone can't think for themselves still that doesn't surprise me...
I haven't been down this roat, but I am just adding that I'd think it would be ya love someone so unconditionally (as in, ya can see their faults) as well as the sparks! - that's one thing to go on anyway, as well as many others which I think can be pretty individual! .. I only wanted to mention that factor because of the rarity of the "unconditional" thing. I mean most ppl get so caught up thinking that their partners/lovers are just absolutely perfect with no faults. very normal though in the early stages of being in love.
You do find those feelings sometimes when your with someone where somewhere in the depth of your soul or your being, you get sort of a sense of having known the person much longer than you really have and the sense that you are "home" when you are with them.
yes I agree, I am seeing my best friend who I've known sense I was 10 and he was 12, we are both visually Impaired. He is my best friend, and like a big brother and I'm his best friend and like a little sister to him. We've been best friends for 11 years and I can't describe how i feel about him or when I'm with him the feeling is so strong that I can't find the right words. I also believe that everyone has their faults and flaws, but I look past them and see his true colors which help the relationship grow stronger
Well, I've known The Ice Master for 4 years, and we know eachother's faults, as well as the good qualities. Neither of us is oblivious to that. We finish each other's sentences, say the same things at the same time, and have even read each other's minds. It is agony when we are apart, like the feeling of missing part of yourself. We often say, we are two halves that make a whole. We grew from being best friends in to lovers, and our love is stronger because of it. We do love each other unconditionally, and that is as someone pointed out, a rarity. I guess what I'm saying is, know the person before you decide to get into a relationship situation, and recognize they have faults, and love them as a whole person.
The thought and king that many of your values clash and you can talk on for hours.